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Life Lesson: Overcome low self-worth, guilt, and feeling powerless and overwhelmed

Your fingerprints were examined to determine your Life Purpose and Life Lesson. The information encoded in your fingerprints is soul level information. The lines and shape of your hand can change. They represent your personality and development in this lifetime. However, your fingerprints NEVER change. Your fingerprints are created the sixteenth week after conception and remain the same throughout your life. According to yoga philosophy this is about the same time the soul enters the body.

There are basically four types of fingerprint patterns - whorl, loop, tented arch, arch, and variations of these four. The combination of fingerprints in relation to the fingers that they appear on creates a code. This code forms a map that tells why you have come here in this lifetime. The map encoded in your fingerprints consists of two aspects: Life Purpose and Life Lesson. You can think of them as opposite sides of the same coin. Your Life Purpose is what you came here to do, and your Life Lesson is what you need to learn in order to do it.

Your Life Purpose is the combination of your most evolved qualities - Creativity and Communications, and your Soul Theme – Wisdom.

Your Life Purpose is the theme that continues in every aspect of your life. This is the driving force behind every experience in your life. Your Life Purpose is your most evolved skill. This is the thing that, when you do it, it gives you energy, it motivates you, it inspires you, and it provides the greatest satisfaction. Your Life Purpose is not a specific job or profession. Your Life Purpose is not what you do, but how you do it.

People with creativity as their life purpose are in tune with the creative flow of energy within. They are able to envision things in a particular manner and express them creatively. Creativity can be expressed in an unlimited number of ways. It doesn’t have to be exhibited in the traditional ways.

Creativity comes from individualism. You have an innate need to express your individualism, and find enjoyment in putting your personal touch on what you do.

Many times people use the expression - “I did this with love.” For example, people say, “I put my love into this dinner. I made it with love.” What do they mean when they say this? They are saying that they put their own personal touch into the process. This is creativity. Creativity is Love. If you want to be happy, take your time and do everything in your life with this approach. This is your gift! You have the capacity to do things with creativity, with love. This is what inspires you.

People with this life purpose are happiest when they are expressing their individuality, delving into their creativity, and being recognized for their unique self-expression.

You need to find your unique form of creativity and express it! You need to be true to yourself and not worry about the reaction of others.

Finding your unique creative outlet

Are you having difficulty finding your unique creative outlet? Find ways to combine the other parts of your Life Purpose. For sustained happiness it is important to find a way to combine all aspects of your Life Purpose. This is where you will discover your unique self-expression.

Creative blocks

Are you having difficulty accessing your creativity? You need to learn how to connect with that inner voice and vision to create. To connect internally you need to be open and focused. Be in the moment. Don’t worry about the results. Enjoy the process.

Feeling like you don’t belong

Learn to celebrate and appreciate your unique expression and self. You may see things differently than others, but treat this as the gift that it is.

Look at your Life Lesson. This is where you will find the obstacles that are preventing your creativity from being fully realized.

In addition to creativity, communication is also part of your Life Purpose. You are someone who has a high capacity to communicate and express ideas. You feel innately driven to express yourself and be heard. People with communication as their life purpose feel an internal need to deliver a message in the form of - ideas, beliefs, causes, counseling, teaching, interpretations, perspectives, analysis, etcetera.

You find happiness expressing your personal message, being heard, and inspiring others. The type of message is unlimited, and the form is undefined. Some people with this purpose like to share observations, personal experiences, while others like to communicate findings based on investigation. Inquiry, and investigation are also linked to communication. To be inquisitive is to communicate ideas based on findings. Sometimes people with this life purpose don’t consciously seek to find a message, but stumble upon a cause.

There is no set message or form – it could be through writing, or speaking. It depends on the interest and aptitudes of each person with this purpose. You must discover your personal message and deliver it!

In order to discover your unique form of expression and find lasting happiness, you need to discover a way to combine your all parts of your Life Purpose; your creativity with your capacity to communicate a message.

Not finding your message

Are you having difficulty finding your message? Find ways to combine the other aspects of your Life Purpose. This is vital for sustained happiness. This is where you will discover your unique self-expression.

Not finding your audience

Are you having difficulty finding people to listen to you? Get involved in various activities and causes until you find one that truly inspires you. Find a forum where you can add value and help people by contributing your ideas.

Not listening to others

Are you truly listening to others? Are you having difficulty being heard? Communication goes both ways. You must listen in order to communicate effectively.

Talking too much/Talking too little

Are you holding back? Do you hide your opinions? What is causing this? Are you dominating in your communications? Are you preventing others from expressing themselves? In both of these situations you may be missing out in the back-in-forth dialogue that can provide a better understand, and also a more effective way of connecting with others and delivering your message.

Difficulty expressing yourself

You need to connect with that inner voice to communicate effectively. You need to open yourself to find your voice. Allow that internal voice guide you. Trust in yourself.

Look at your Life Lesson. This is where you will find the obstacles that are preventing your qualities from being fully realized.

Your Soul Theme is designed to develop certain skills you need to do your Life Purpose. Your Soul Theme is a life theme, a context within which your Life Purpose and Life Lesson find expression. It contains both well-developed qualities and challenges. You need to overcome the challenges in order to benefit from the qualities of your theme.

Your Soul Theme – Wisdom – develops wisdom through doing. People with this soul theme should be focused on experience. This is the key to developing your Life Purpose. It is through experience that wisdom is attained.

It is important that you are able to move from evaluation to action. This means being a participant, not just an observer. Learning how to take risks. Taking action and committing yourself to what you do. Being objective, but still caring. Being insightful without over-rationalization. Maintaining perspective.

Over-evaluation

It is important that you learn how to take the step from evaluation to action. You gain wisdom from experience, not just evaluating.

Difficulty making decisions

You need to learn to commit yourself and take a chance. Don’t be too preoccupied about the outcome. Wisdom is gained regardless. The most important thing for you is to act.

Being an “expert” or having over serious dogmas

Sometimes what prevents us from learning is what we think we already know. Be open to other opinions and perspectives.

Look at your Soul Theme in the Life Lesson section for the obstacles that may be preventing these qualities from being fully realized.

Your Life Lesson: Overcome low self-worth, guilt, and feeling powerless and overwhelmed.

Your Life Lesson is the combination of your least evolved qualities – Low Self-Worth/Guilt and Powerlessness/Overwhelm, and your Soul Theme – Wisdom.

Your Life Lesson is the area of greatest resistance in your life. It is the largest obstacle, preventing you from realizing your potential. It is the thing that is holding you back from fully committing to your Life Purpose. Your Life Lesson is your least evolved skill. Your Life Lesson is your least evolved skill from five months prior to birth when your fingerprints took form. There is no way around it. You must contend with your Life Lesson for your Life Purpose to blossom.

Your Life Lesson is to build self-esteem that is independent of your circumstances. Your self-worth is what is going to hold you back from fulfilling your Life Purpose. In life we achieve the level of success we feel we deserve. Your external experience is just a projection of your internal experience. We get the jobs, relationships, etcetera that we feel we deserve. This happens consciously and unconsciously. The way to overcome these self-imposed obstacles is to believe that you deserve better. It is easy to convince your conscious mind that you deserve better, but it is much more challenging to convince your unconscious. You have to truly feel it.

To begin with don’t accept anything, but the best from all situations. If you accept something that is inferior, you are saying, “this is what I deserve.” So by accepting only the best for your life you will transform this inner message. This is an important step. Also, your actions and behavior need to reflect a higher self-worth. Live a lifestyle that shows you care about yourself. This can be as basic as diet and exercise. Employ discipline in your life. If you want something, work towards it. Don’t wait for your attitude to change. Let your actions change your attitude! If you want to change patterns in your life, look inside.

Low self-esteem is a challenging thing to overcome, and doesn’t happen overnight. However, it can be improved, and overcome. You must work on it. The first thing that you need to understand is that you have a choice. It is up to you to improve your self-esteem. You need to love yourself unconditionally! Self-love is the most important thing you need to reach your potential. If you don’t love yourself completely you won’t be able to utilize all your unique qualities. What makes us all special is the unique combination of characteristics we possess. If you say to yourself, I like certain aspects of myself, but I don’t like others, you are limiting the combination of qualities you have. You need to love, without condition, all aspects of yourself. Develop self-esteem that is independent of circumstance. Furthermore, the more you love yourself, the more you will connect with the creative force inside of you. Remember, creativity and love are the same.

The second part of improving your self-esteem is to be aware of how it influences your life (decisions, thinking, behavior, actions, etcetera). Becoming aware of how your self-esteem is influencing the various aspects of your life is important. If you are not conscious of the effect it has it will be difficult to change the patterns of behavior that it causes.

You must interact with yourself differently; change the internal dialogue you have with yourself. When you catch yourself saying, and/or thinking things that are negative about yourself – stop, take a deep breath, clear your mind and replace the thought with a positive one. Change your internal dialogue.

EVERYTIME you find yourself having a negative internal dialogue – inhale through your nose - focusing on the inhale, and feeling your lungs expand. Hold it for a few seconds, allowing the air to circulate and cleanse your mind. Then exhale through your nose and let this breath clear your mind. Then put a positive thought in your mind. For example, if you catch yourself thinking (or saying) something negative about yourself, stop, inhale consciously, hold it for a few seconds, exhale, clearing your mind, then tell yourself (remind yourself) that you are special, you are perfect. Do the same thing if you catch yourself accepting something that is less than you want (but maybe what you feel you deserve). Remind yourself that you deserve better. Remember we achieve the level of success (in everything – relationships, academics, sports, jobs, etcetera) that we feel we deserve. You have to have the mental image and dialogue that you deserve the best. Tell yourself I deserve better. I won’t settle for less. Sometimes it helps to have a role model in something. Then ask yourself, “Would this role model accept this situation? No, then why should I?” If you train yourself like this it will get easier and improve.

An important thing to remember is that you are already perfect! People don’t change. What changes is how we see ourselves. Then we act according to this view. For example, I may go through a period in my life where my self-esteem is low. So all my decisions are influenced from a perspective of low self-esteem. Maybe I don’t take as many chances, experience as much, etcetera. Then, I work on my self-esteem. So now I am taking more chances, having more experiences, etcetera. People may say, “I have changed.” But really the only thing that has changed is the opinion I have of myself - how I see myself. So remember you are already perfect you have to just recognize it! APPRECIATE YOURSELF! LOVE YOURSELF!

The second part of your Life Lesson is feeling Powerless and Overwhelmed. This is closely tied to self-worth and manifests in your capacity to “act” and experience. People with this life lesson need to learn to be confident and stand their ground to find their personal power. Your feeling of powerlessness feeds off your feelings of low self-esteem.

You have difficulty finding and having confidence in your capacity to harness your internal power. Once these feelings persist it becomes difficult for you to take action, to create. Then you feel overwhelmed by external forces. However, these feelings grew from inside you. You project them onto the external world, but they are part of your internal experience. You need to step up, be confident and exercise your personal power from within. By not exercising your personal power, you are preventing your Life Purpose from blossoming.

Your Soul Theme is designed to develop certain skills you need for your Life Purpose and Life Lesson. It contains both well-developed qualities and challenges. The main challenge for people who have a Soul Theme of wisdom is - action versus evaluation. Below are the typical challenges for someone with Wisdom as their Soul Theme. Keep in mind when you read the challenges that you may exhibit all or just some of them; and also to differing degrees, at different points in your life, and under different circumstances. These should be used as a guide to make it easier for you to be conscious of these tendencies and get past them if you experience them.

Your Soul Theme is Wisdom. The overall theme for you is Action versus Evaluation. To obtain wisdom you must experience, and to experience you must take action. Your challenge is going from evaluation to action. You need to learn when to move from thinking to doing. For your Life Purpose experience is very important. It is good to spend a reasonable amount of time evaluating, but make sure that you don’t get stuck in the process. Bellow are some common ways that keep you from acting.

Over-evaluating

Remember the overall theme of Wisdom is – experience. The main challenge to experience is - action versus evaluation. In order to learn you need to experience. However, the tendency for people in this school is to get stuck in the evaluation part and not advance to the doing part. It is good to think about what you want to do, but there has to come a point where you take the step and begin doing. Drawing the line between this point is probably where your challenge will be. There is nothing wrong with evaluating and planning, but it is important to know when you are “over” evaluating and it is time to take action.

Sitting on the fence

Am I having difficulty making a decision one way or the other? Being unable to make a decision is another way to inhibit action. In over-evaluation you have difficulty knowing when the evaluation part should turn into action. “Sitting on the fence” prevents you from taking action because of an inability to make a decision.

“Expert”

The error of being an “expert” means that at times you think you know everything and there is nothing left to learn (this could be in a particular subject) and so you aren’t open to other perspectives and/or experiences. There is a saying that goes, “What we think we know prevents us from learning.” When we close ourselves off from other perspectives, or think that we already know something we may be limiting ourselves and closing our mind to other possibilities.

Over serious dogma

This error is a similar problem to the “expert.” Having an over serious dogma means that you have such a strong belief in some principle or set of principles that you are closed to other possibilities and experiences. It is okay to have a strong set of beliefs, but not to be so closed off to others that it limits you.

You can see that the four Wisdom errors can limit your experiences because they all are obstacles to action. You may exhibit some or all of these characteristics in differing degrees. It is important to become aware of these in your self and not let them limit your growth.

Through this analysis you can see that your Life Purpose and Life Lesson are directly linked. If you are not working on your Life Lesson, your Life Purpose is not going to flourish as well as it could. You need to understand the relationship between them. The first step to creating new patterns in your life is understanding the old ones. Remember your external life is just a projection of the internal. You can overcome the obstacles that are preventing your unique expression from manifesting. Love yourself, appreciate yourself, celebrate yourself and you will realize your Life Purpose and achieve your potential!